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Beyond The Party: Simple Thoughts on Birthday Acknowledgment

Beyond The Party: Simple Thoughts on Birthday Acknowledgment I never thought my heart would ask me to write about birthdays and its special meanings, until one day, a wake up call came to me through a language learning app. It’s like God assigned me a task to write down my ideas on indifference and uncomfortable feelings towards birthdays. Therefore, I’m trying my best to break down my thoughts into an easy-to-understand content. But, before I go ahead, I want to inform you that you can now support me with this blog by clicking   buy me french fries . Thanks in advance! To make long story short, I was catching up and chilling with online friends, having conversations on so many different topics. There was this guy, coming up with a question for everyone in the group chat, wanting to hear each of the member’s opinion on birthday celebrations. “Is it important to celebrate our birthday?” He asked. “I just feel it nothing magical, just like ordinary days. So, why is it even worth
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Simple Thoughts on Social Fears: My social Fear, My Social Beauty

Simple Thoughts on Social Fears: My Social Fear, My Social Beauty Have you ever get scared of social interactions? Have you ever get anxious about gathering with family or friends without knowing why? Have you ever felt uncomfortable for no reason in the middle of your catch-ups? If you say yes, I’ll let you know that I feel you. I was with you on that pile of fears, but now, I am with you to give a little bit of sharing so you can reach up. Here’s the key points of my sharing. Brief introduction to social fears; Motivational thoughts on people with social fears; My social beauty: fear of causing offense. I hope you read this writing to the end. And, if you resonate with my post, feel free to click  buy me French fries . Brief Introduction to Social Fears Some people are familiar with social fears , while some others hear social anxiety more often. These two may have a different medical devinition (I don’t know), I personally don’t talk from medical perspective since it’s
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My Simple Thoughts, Belief, and Personal Stories on Reincarnation

Simple Thoughts & Personal Stories on Reincarnation I start this post by saying, I’m not believing in reincarnation because of any religion. Nothing has influenced me to have faith in it. Nothing but myself. So, again, I do believe because I find something about it that makes sense to me. Later after you figure out what I mean, please kindly not judge. Remember, what’s acceptable to people sometimes doesn’t suit you at all! Brief Introduction to Reincarnation Let me write a brief introduction to reincarnation, just in case you aren’t familiar. So, reincarnation is defined as the rebirth of a soul in a new body. Yes, it’s another life for any soul that has been born before. How it works is just a physical body dies, the spirit moves on to another dimension. People simply say they go to the sky or wherever way up high. After some period of time, they will be given a new physical body and of course, a new role and a new story of life. When they are allowed to live another li
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Simple Thoughts on Saying No: “Honor Your Values, Encourage Others to Respect Your Time”

Simple Thoughts on Saying No: Honor Your Values, Encourage Others to Respect Your Time There are times when your mouth says “yes”, but your heart doesn’t do the same. You can feel / hear / sense those two opposite voices, but you ignore the one in your heart. Denying them, you give your time and energy to others and leave all the stresses to yourself. Can we just say “no” to whatever against our capability? Saying no to overcommitment, for example. Means we keep saying no even if they say “as a good friend of theirs, you are always obliged to be there for them no matter what”. Can we say no without any worries to whatever destroys our emotional / mental health? Just saying those two letters without thinking: they’re important to me so I must help them whenever they call. Can we put a little bit of limit to our yeses? Well, let me congratulate those who can. But for those who are saying you can’t, nothing holds you back but your fear to upset others. It’s all fears about others. T
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Simple Thoughts on Creating To-Do List: Effectively Fun and Therapeutic!

Simple Thoughts on Creating To-Do List: Effectively Fun and Therapeutic! This fast-paced world wants a lot of work to handle while tracking of so many deadlines and appointment in every 24 hours. To avoid conflicting schedules and any delays, people no longer rely on their limited memory to get things done manageably. They put it all onto a list called to-do list . To-do list = anything and everything that’s needed to do during the whole day, week, or even month. I guess we already have enough familiarity with to-do list , since it has been recommended by a lot of self-development content writers / bloggers out there. But, creating list of things to do is still busy sounding. It still brings the sense of busy ones that have no rest. Lol Some people think that listing would end in smoke if they don’t have things to keep up with. here the questions come. How effective is creating to-do list when we don’t have to keep up with a lot of things? When there is a new writing to publish
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Poem on Self-Love: The Love and You

What's Behind My Poem So, Together we read, together we understand the message in words, together we start loving. Please give yourself love. You deserve to be loved no matter what. You love yourself in the first place, not because others love you. You do self-love as you were born to be self-lover and lover. Enjoy my poem, everyone. Don’t forget to feel the love within you! The Love and You Motivational Poem on Self-Love The love was given to you so you can go loving back All the plots belong to you   But, what you mostly love isn’t you The Thing is the only you It’s not the love never helps you   Means the opposite is always done by you See, you hate living life as you are when the love keeps throwing hearts at who you are   The love has been gifted to you So you can take a value from anything that’s meant for you   But, what you forget is loving you Although the love still cares about you No matter how many of them Have been killed
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Simple Thoughts and Tips on Values of Perfection in Humanity

Simple Thoughts and Tips on Values of Perfection in Humanity There’s a saying that has been super popular over the years. It is “ nobody’s perfect”. Unfortunately, unrealistic expectations still becomes a serious issue in humanity that causes mental breakdown and even prolonged mental illness, after this much familiarity we have towards that meaningful motivational sentence . This current situation keeps calling out my head and my heart to make some simple thoughts to help you go through. So, here I am now, creating a space for all of you to Meet some different views of perfection outlooks and values. As a brief introduction, let me say that perfection’s meanings and outlooks are always depending on the way you believe or disbelieve . Sample of Perfection Outlooks Imagine, seeing perfection from the eyes of a believer who’s extremely optimistic for other’s future, but becomes against all positive thoughts when it’s about yours. Your glasses are your bitterness or failures to
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